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Hey, welcome back.
Let’s start with one of the first physical red flags people miss: their clothes.
If your partner suddenly starts dressing way better, upgrading their wardrobe, trying out new styles, even buying new underwear, and it's clearly not for you, that's something to pay attention to.
Now obviously, people change how they dress.
Maybe they got a new job or just want to feel better about themselves. That’s normal.
But if it comes out of nowhere, doesn’t match what’s going on in their life, and only seems to happen when they’re not with you, that’s different.
Remember when you first got together?
You probably both tried to look your best. New relationships trigger that natural “impress them” feeling.
But when your partner suddenly starts acting like they’ve just entered the dating world again, sometimes it’s because they have.
You know your partner’s style better than anyone.
Maybe you help them shop, or maybe they never really cared about fashion.
And now, out of the blue, they’re into expensive shirts, fitted jeans, and fancy shoes.
Stuff they never used to care about.
Sometimes it’s even styles they used to hate.
One woman shared that after nearly twenty years together, her husband suddenly had designer shirts in the closet.
He’d never worn anything like that before.
Turns out he didn’t buy them at all. His mistress did.
And then there's the underwear.
If he’s been perfectly fine wearing the same old stretched-out boxers for years, and suddenly he’s upgrading to fancy brands like Calvin Klein, it’s normal to wonder what changed, and who it’s really for.
Another clue?
They stop asking for your opinion.
They used to show you things before buying them or shop with you. Now they're picking things out alone.
And you start noticing patterns.
They dress up for work, the gym, and nights out with friends.
But when it’s you, it’s the same old track pants, the same old T-shirt, zero effort.
The effort becomes selective.
And it starts to feel like that version of them, the polished and put-together one, just isn’t for you anymore.
Look, not every style change means someone’s cheating. People go through phases.
But if it’s sudden, unexplained, and only shows up when you’re not around and especially if other signs are popping up too, don’t ignore it.
Your gut will know when something is off.
Listen to it.
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Transcript
Hey, welcome back.
Let’s start with one of the first physical red flags people miss: their clothes.
If your partner suddenly starts dressing way better, upgrading their wardrobe, trying out new styles, even buying new underwear, and it's clearly not for you, that's something to pay attention to.
Now obviously, people change how they dress.
Maybe they got a new job or just want to feel better about themselves. That’s normal.
But if it comes out of nowhere, doesn’t match what’s going on in their life, and only seems to happen when they’re not with you, that’s different.
Remember when you first got together?
You probably both tried to look your best. New relationships trigger that natural “impress them” feeling.
But when your partner suddenly starts acting like they’ve just entered the dating world again, sometimes it’s because they have.
You know your partner’s style better than anyone.
Maybe you help them shop, or maybe they never really cared about fashion.
And now, out of the blue, they’re into expensive shirts, fitted jeans, and fancy shoes.
Stuff they never used to care about.
Sometimes it’s even styles they used to hate.
One woman shared that after nearly twenty years together, her husband suddenly had designer shirts in the closet.
He’d never worn anything like that before.
Turns out he didn’t buy them at all. His mistress did.
And then there's the underwear.
If he’s been perfectly fine wearing the same old stretched-out boxers for years, and suddenly he’s upgrading to fancy brands like Calvin Klein, it’s normal to wonder what changed, and who it’s really for.
Another clue?
They stop asking for your opinion.
They used to show you things before buying them or shop with you. Now they're picking things out alone.
And you start noticing patterns.
They dress up for work, the gym, and nights out with friends.
But when it’s you, it’s the same old track pants, the same old T-shirt, zero effort.
The effort becomes selective.
And it starts to feel like that version of them, the polished and put-together one, just isn’t for you anymore.
Look, not every style change means someone’s cheating. People go through phases.
But if it’s sudden, unexplained, and only shows up when you’re not around and especially if other signs are popping up too, don’t ignore it.
Your gut will know when something is off.
Listen to it.
Read More
Transcript
Hey, welcome back.
Let’s start with one of the first physical red flags people miss: their clothes.
If your partner suddenly starts dressing way better, upgrading their wardrobe, trying out new styles, even buying new underwear, and it's clearly not for you, that's something to pay attention to.
Now obviously, people change how they dress.
Maybe they got a new job or just want to feel better about themselves. That’s normal.
But if it comes out of nowhere, doesn’t match what’s going on in their life, and only seems to happen when they’re not with you, that’s different.
Remember when you first got together?
You probably both tried to look your best. New relationships trigger that natural “impress them” feeling.
But when your partner suddenly starts acting like they’ve just entered the dating world again, sometimes it’s because they have.
You know your partner’s style better than anyone.
Maybe you help them shop, or maybe they never really cared about fashion.
And now, out of the blue, they’re into expensive shirts, fitted jeans, and fancy shoes.
Stuff they never used to care about.
Sometimes it’s even styles they used to hate.
One woman shared that after nearly twenty years together, her husband suddenly had designer shirts in the closet.
He’d never worn anything like that before.
Turns out he didn’t buy them at all. His mistress did.
And then there's the underwear.
If he’s been perfectly fine wearing the same old stretched-out boxers for years, and suddenly he’s upgrading to fancy brands like Calvin Klein, it’s normal to wonder what changed, and who it’s really for.
Another clue?
They stop asking for your opinion.
They used to show you things before buying them or shop with you. Now they're picking things out alone.
And you start noticing patterns.
They dress up for work, the gym, and nights out with friends.
But when it’s you, it’s the same old track pants, the same old T-shirt, zero effort.
The effort becomes selective.
And it starts to feel like that version of them, the polished and put-together one, just isn’t for you anymore.
Look, not every style change means someone’s cheating. People go through phases.
But if it’s sudden, unexplained, and only shows up when you’re not around and especially if other signs are popping up too, don’t ignore it.
Your gut will know when something is off.
Listen to it.