Transcript
Hi, welcome back! You’ve made it to the final part of this introduction, and I’m so glad you’re here. It shows you’re serious about seeing things clearly and protecting your heart.
As we move through this program, there’s something really important I want you to remember:
cheating doesn’t just happen.
It is never some dumb mistake. Cheating is always intentional.
It’s not some drunken “oops, it just happened” moment. Every affair, every single one, is made up of choices. Not just one or two choices, but hundreds, probably thousands of choices.
To lie, he chose that.
To hide things from you, he chose that too.
To text her, message her, flirt, arrange to meet, have sex with her.
Every single step was another choice where he could have stopped and thought about the woman he promised to love.
If you finish this course and find out he’s cheating, I want you to picture exactly what it took to get there. The first glance. The first secret text. The first time he deleted something. The first time he reached out and touched her. Each and every step, he had the chance to stop himself and say, "This isn’t right." But he didn't. He knew it would destroy you. And he did it anyway.
In that moment, right before he went inside of her, he thought about you. Of course he did. Don’t ever believe he “wasn’t thinking.” He thought about you, he thought about how this could hurt you, how he could lose you, how you might never forgive him, and he still did it anyway. He chose to put his desires, his ego, before your heart. He chose to make another woman moan while you were at home. Waiting. Loving him. Trusting him.
And he knew. He knew you might never take him back. He knew this could destroy you. But he was okay with that. He accepted it. He accepted the possibility of losing you and still went through with it.
Your relationship might be in a tough spot. Maybe you’re arguing more, feeling distant, or overwhelmed with work, kids, or life in general. Those things are real, and they matter, but they never justify cheating.
Thousands of men face those same struggles, but they choose to talk, not betray. They ask for help. They try therapy. Or, if they really believe it’s over, they leave. They end it with honesty and integrity. That option was available to your partner. He didn’t take it.
Ask yourself:
Did he sit you down and say, “I’ve been unhappy. I feel disconnected. And I need to tell you before I do something stupid”?
Did he say, “I care about you too much to cheat, so let’s try and fix this or end it respectfully"?
Did he even once try to communicate his feelings before crossing the line?
If he didn’t, then he never gave you a choice. He made those decisions behind your back. Decisions that affect your body, your safety, your health, your entire future. That isn’t just betrayal, it’s a violation of your autonomy.
When someone cheats, they’re not just hurting your feelings. They’re risking your safety. They’re exposing you to STIs. Sometimes, to pregnancies. They’re diverting money, time, and emotional energy, resources that should’ve belonged to your relationship. Some women even end up stalked by the other women they didn’t even know existed.
And you never agreed to any of it.
Their choices stripped you from making an informed choice about your own life.
You were never even given the option.
So if you finish this program and discover he's cheating, I want you to really consider is he’s someone worth choosing, when he never once chose you.
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Transcript
Hi, welcome back! You’ve made it to the final part of this introduction, and I’m so glad you’re here. It shows you’re serious about seeing things clearly and protecting your heart.
As we move through this program, there’s something really important I want you to remember:
cheating doesn’t just happen.
It is never some dumb mistake. Cheating is always intentional.
It’s not some drunken “oops, it just happened” moment. Every affair, every single one, is made up of choices. Not just one or two choices, but hundreds, probably thousands of choices.
To lie, he chose that.
To hide things from you, he chose that too.
To text her, message her, flirt, arrange to meet, have sex with her.
Every single step was another choice where he could have stopped and thought about the woman he promised to love.
If you finish this course and find out he’s cheating, I want you to picture exactly what it took to get there. The first glance. The first secret text. The first time he deleted something. The first time he reached out and touched her. Each and every step, he had the chance to stop himself and say, "This isn’t right." But he didn't. He knew it would destroy you. And he did it anyway.
In that moment, right before he went inside of her, he thought about you. Of course he did. Don’t ever believe he “wasn’t thinking.” He thought about you, he thought about how this could hurt you, how he could lose you, how you might never forgive him, and he still did it anyway. He chose to put his desires, his ego, before your heart. He chose to make another woman moan while you were at home. Waiting. Loving him. Trusting him.
And he knew. He knew you might never take him back. He knew this could destroy you. But he was okay with that. He accepted it. He accepted the possibility of losing you and still went through with it.
Your relationship might be in a tough spot. Maybe you’re arguing more, feeling distant, or overwhelmed with work, kids, or life in general. Those things are real, and they matter, but they never justify cheating.
Thousands of men face those same struggles, but they choose to talk, not betray. They ask for help. They try therapy. Or, if they really believe it’s over, they leave. They end it with honesty and integrity. That option was available to your partner. He didn’t take it.
Ask yourself:
Did he sit you down and say, “I’ve been unhappy. I feel disconnected. And I need to tell you before I do something stupid”?
Did he say, “I care about you too much to cheat, so let’s try and fix this or end it respectfully"?
Did he even once try to communicate his feelings before crossing the line?
If he didn’t, then he never gave you a choice. He made those decisions behind your back. Decisions that affect your body, your safety, your health, your entire future. That isn’t just betrayal, it’s a violation of your autonomy.
When someone cheats, they’re not just hurting your feelings. They’re risking your safety. They’re exposing you to STIs. Sometimes, to pregnancies. They’re diverting money, time, and emotional energy, resources that should’ve belonged to your relationship. Some women even end up stalked by the other women they didn’t even know existed.
And you never agreed to any of it.
Their choices stripped you from making an informed choice about your own life.
You were never even given the option.
So if you finish this program and discover he's cheating, I want you to really consider is he’s someone worth choosing, when he never once chose you.
Read More
Transcript
Hi, welcome back! You’ve made it to the final part of this introduction, and I’m so glad you’re here. It shows you’re serious about seeing things clearly and protecting your heart.
As we move through this program, there’s something really important I want you to remember:
cheating doesn’t just happen.
It is never some dumb mistake. Cheating is always intentional.
It’s not some drunken “oops, it just happened” moment. Every affair, every single one, is made up of choices. Not just one or two choices, but hundreds, probably thousands of choices.
To lie, he chose that.
To hide things from you, he chose that too.
To text her, message her, flirt, arrange to meet, have sex with her.
Every single step was another choice where he could have stopped and thought about the woman he promised to love.
If you finish this course and find out he’s cheating, I want you to picture exactly what it took to get there. The first glance. The first secret text. The first time he deleted something. The first time he reached out and touched her. Each and every step, he had the chance to stop himself and say, "This isn’t right." But he didn't. He knew it would destroy you. And he did it anyway.
In that moment, right before he went inside of her, he thought about you. Of course he did. Don’t ever believe he “wasn’t thinking.” He thought about you, he thought about how this could hurt you, how he could lose you, how you might never forgive him, and he still did it anyway. He chose to put his desires, his ego, before your heart. He chose to make another woman moan while you were at home. Waiting. Loving him. Trusting him.
And he knew. He knew you might never take him back. He knew this could destroy you. But he was okay with that. He accepted it. He accepted the possibility of losing you and still went through with it.
Your relationship might be in a tough spot. Maybe you’re arguing more, feeling distant, or overwhelmed with work, kids, or life in general. Those things are real, and they matter, but they never justify cheating.
Thousands of men face those same struggles, but they choose to talk, not betray. They ask for help. They try therapy. Or, if they really believe it’s over, they leave. They end it with honesty and integrity. That option was available to your partner. He didn’t take it.
Ask yourself:
Did he sit you down and say, “I’ve been unhappy. I feel disconnected. And I need to tell you before I do something stupid”?
Did he say, “I care about you too much to cheat, so let’s try and fix this or end it respectfully"?
Did he even once try to communicate his feelings before crossing the line?
If he didn’t, then he never gave you a choice. He made those decisions behind your back. Decisions that affect your body, your safety, your health, your entire future. That isn’t just betrayal, it’s a violation of your autonomy.
When someone cheats, they’re not just hurting your feelings. They’re risking your safety. They’re exposing you to STIs. Sometimes, to pregnancies. They’re diverting money, time, and emotional energy, resources that should’ve belonged to your relationship. Some women even end up stalked by the other women they didn’t even know existed.
And you never agreed to any of it.
Their choices stripped you from making an informed choice about your own life.
You were never even given the option.
So if you finish this program and discover he's cheating, I want you to really consider is he’s someone worth choosing, when he never once chose you.